My Hotwife is shy
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As long as she knows this is what you desire her to do and it will please you, she will submit to it!
Shy is ok, but she must know and be reassured that you won't look at her any other way but better in your eyes. I tell my girls that their value actually will increase in my eyes!
What if she never wants to try it for real and always wants to keep it a fantasy?
I tell her a lot that's it's a fantasy of mine and it would increase how much I love her but she always says why can't you love me for being me why do we have to add a something else or someone else to our sex life.
In the end you have to continue to reassure her and out your foot down that this is what is going to make you happy!
Don’t take the advice to keep pushing her. Respect that she only wants you. It’s okay. Most women aren’t into this. Role plays can be very fulfilling
Yeah I think I will just keep roleplaying and getting her hot and turned on by it and see if she warms back up to it in the future. It's a tough because I love this whole life style so much and can't help but think we are both missing out on a lot of fun. But it's her decision as well and I need to wait for her to feel confident and comfortable to get into it.
Until then if anyone has any ideas how I can speed this process up or things I could try let me know.
She’s not missing out. She doesn’t want it. She wants you. That’s good enough for her and it should be good enough for you
I just would like a more exotic sex life, like we had previously, but she's changed, doesn't want that anymore and it's a tough process to give up something that you've enjoyed so much before.
Sex is probably something you and your husband or bf enjoy. What would you do if one day he turned around and said I don't want sex anymore. Could you happily do that?
It's just a hard predicament to be in, I am trying to ignore my urges and respect her feelings on the matter, it's just a lot harder than I thought it would be to just ignore.
Thank you for being honest. Think about what you’ve said. She has pulled back from having erotic sex with you and somehow you hope that she will want sex with others. You really need to start talking to her. There are many reasons that women pull back. Maybe her bodies changing and she’s not comfortable with it anymore and sex creates anxiety. Maybe sex is becoming painful, there are many reasons for that. It could be emotional. It could be unresolved conflict. I have friends that their husband has let himself go. The bad breath stories I hear are heart breaking. It could be multiple things. It’s not as simple as just not wanting sex. Most women actually enjoy sex.
I want to be with a woman who WANTS/Desires to be with me. Married, or not, I don't have pity fucks or try to take woman away from their hubbies, or satisfy some cucks desire, OR fix their relationship. There are plenty of beautiful, sexy, willing to be desired woman available, so I choose not to have drama in my life.
BlkStingray69
Male
I would start with some interracial porn. Probably soft, more romantic porn. XHamster has a lot. You don’t even have to sign up. Than add slight sex toys, plenty of time to move up to BBC dildos! Add some wine, or whatever she likes to *******. Late nature take it’s course.
BlkStingray69
Male
YUP!
Same here. She has tried 3 guys but they all were liars and now she is gun shy!
